How to deal with rejection from others

[iamoverflow]

I am having a hard time dealing with my loneliness. I have been rejected by so many groups of people and even my family. Because of my spiritual awakening. There are moments when the others around me start reacting positively to me being around. When they want to come up for air out of their ego. But once they come back to ego they hate me. Because I'm a constant threat to their ego. I don't know how to tone it down, so I can sort of go under the radar. I have met others who are also trying to wake up and they respect me. But sometimes I have been attacked by those who's ego thought of me as a serious threat. I have been dealing with this my entire life and it has left me feeling very alone and rejected.

[WeAreAllOne]

Hi overflow, great to have you with us.

Thank you for sharing your experience with us. It is something many people in Spiritual communities or with Spiritual ideas face. It has happened to me too, and many others that are and have awakened and pierced through their ego. Because of these types of reactions I have often kept quiet about these kind of ideas and discussions as to not "rock the boat" too much with others.

Even though I deeply resonate with Spiritual teachings and wish I could talk more about it with others, I have come to realize not everyone is ready for these ideas yet. In this sense, I feel like when a person/soul is ready at the physical level to start integrating these types of thoughts and ideas and a new higher consciousness, is when they will be more open and willing to listen to such ideas. It is kind of a bummer at the same time, because I also feel like many people can benefit from these teachings and ideas. It is an entirely different way of living and being, and many are not used to or want such change.

I think it also comes down to cognitive dissonance. Many people have their own idea of reality and how the world works, and when someone comes with ideas that poke holes in that world view of theirs, it can make them feel threatened and retreat back within their carefully constructed bubble. It is sad to see but at the same time it is out of our hands since it is up to the person/soul when the best time to realize these ideas are. Many people will pass away not realizing how much is going on around us. And that's okay too. I have come to accept that not everyone is ready, but I hope in the future that a world of Love and Light and expanded heightened consciousness is the norm. I await the day ego does not have such a stronghold over people and I can't help but fantasize about full disclosure and what kind of impacts to the social climate and mass consciousness such an event could bring.

However with all this said, I have noticed a very large uptick in people looking into and agreeing with Spiritual esoteric ideas. As others awaken and poke their heads up it will only send more and more ripples throughout the human race. It is only a matter of time before the hundredth monkey effect kicks in and it reaches the mass consciousness. I have observed this with the epstein case. What was once hidden and ridiculed as a conspiracy theory, is not dominating front pages, being upvoted in the thousands, and people are agreeing that and realizing that there has been a dark often unseen side of the world many people refused to accept. This is part of grand awakening, since we can't live in a world with such darkness if we want to raise ourselves up. This seems to be why so many things are crumbling, being exposed, falling apart. IT HAS TO. And with that, will come new ways of thinking. New ideas. New social experiences and connections in the way of spiritual harmony and unity.

It is only a matter of time. It is hard to not want to feel vindicated or want an apology or want to be redeemed. It is best to forgive and move on and know that many will eventually see the light, for WE ALL RETURN TO THE LIGHT EVENTUALLY. I have stopped bringing it up so much to personal friends of mine and have been focusing on enjoying company instead of stirring the pot so to speak. For I know that eventually, these ideas will be "main stream" and will no longer be ridiculed but instead be known as fact and people will take it even further and we will find new ways of being.

I understand feeling lonely and rejected because of such a situation. It is how I felt too, and still sometimes feel it. It's best to focus on your own inner growth and spiritual journey. In due time, when people awaken and start asking new questions, is the time to step in and offer a hand. For they are ready to ponder such ideas and what better way to share a connection over an emerging realization of spiritual ideas and ideals that you have always resonated with. Not sure if I have helped at all but I just wanted to let you know you are not alone and many face the exact same dilemma you are in!

Hope to hear back, take care and I hope life is well for you.

Thanks for stopping by

[kronks]

Sept 2, 2019 12:27:38 GMT -8 iamoverflow said:

I am having a hard time dealing with my loneliness. I have been rejected by so many groups of people and even my family. Because of my spiritual awakening. There are moments when the others around me start reacting positively to me being around. When they want to come up for air out of their ego. But once they come back to ego they hate me. Because I'm a constant threat to their ego. I don't know how to tone it down, so I can sort of go under the radar. I have met others who are also trying to wake up and they respect me. But sometimes I have been attacked by those who's ego thought of me as a serious threat. I have been dealing with this my entire life and it has left me feeling very alone and rejected.

I think some people have a hard time accepting those who are a bit different.

But there are always those who are more open minded, they do tend to be in the minority though, especially with something like this I guess. Maybe accept some will never accept that part of you and  concentrate more on the parts they can accept?